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The Family Pet: A Friend for Life
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Source: Source: Brown, J. J. (n.d.).
A friend for life. Retrieved January 12, 2005, from
the Ohio State University Extension website at
http://ohioline.osu.edu/ss-fact/0213.html
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Has an animal ever owned you? Sounds funny,
doesn't it? We say that we own our pets, but in most cases
we are the ones who work to make them happy. And we work hard
to do that!
Actually, that turns out to be a good thing.
Human beings seem to need to care for someone or something. "At
the beginning of life," says veterinarian Dr. Marty Becker
in his book, The Healing Power of Pets, "pets teach a
child responsibility and nurturance." He goes on to say
that, especially for an older adult living alone, pets "provide
a way to hold onto those same skills."
Animals add many things to
our lives: joy, companionship, comfort, friendship, and
sometimes just a reason to get up each morning. The need
to care for a pet can be a reason to stay active and
get out into the world on a daily basis. Often, we will
do something (like take walks) for a pet that we wouldn't
do just for ourselves. Exercise and continued flexibility
for oneself is an added bonus of the walk, as is the
contact with other people who are often drawn into conversation
by their desire to interact with our pets.
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A Canadian study of more than a thousand seniors found that
pet owners were more active than those who had no pets. Over
the one-year period covered by the study, pet-owners remained
more consistently able to perform daily living skills such
as getting in and out of bed, dressing themselves, and eating
than did participants who did not have a pet.
Laughter is another gift a pet gives its person. Just watch
a cat that is watching a bird outside the window or a dog trying
to free its favorite toy from under a rug. Notice that neither
is concerned with how silly it looks. Each is completely concentrated
on the task at hand. That's another gift our pets give us--they
take us away from the problems and stresses of daily living
and teach us to live within each moment.
Seniors who share their lives with a pet often spend less
time at the doctor's office. A study reported in the Journal
of the Royal Society of Medicine showed that only one
month after acquiring a dog or cat, seniors experienced 50%
fewer minor medical problems such as pain in their joints,
indigestion, colds and flus, back pain, and headaches.
Pets help us deal with stressful life events, too. Many pet
owners simply say that their pets are "just there" when
things seem to be going wrong. Looking into the loving eyes
of an animal as you stroke its silky fur can help you realize
that you are not alone and that you are, indeed, worth loving.
That can be a big boost when life isn't exactly going your
way.
So, how do you decide if (or which) pet is right for you?
Start by asking yourself some basic questions. Do you have
time to feed, love, play with, and train a companion animal?
Can you cover the cost of food and veterinary care or find
someone to help you do so? Do you have strength limitations
that might affect the kind or size of a pet you can care for?
Do you (or anyone in your family) have allergies that would
be aggravated by pet hair or dander? What will you do with
your pet when you're away from home? Finally, what kind of
pet do you want to share your life with?
The next step is to learn all you can about the type of animal
that you think you would like to adopt. Do this before meeting
actual animals! A big mistake that is often made is to be "taken" by
a pair of soft eyes and end up adopting a pet that needs love
but is totally wrong for the person and his or her lifestyle.
Gain information by talking with your local veterinarian about
health care needs and costs relating to various animals and
his or her tips on choosing a companion animal. Another idea
is to borrow a friend's or relative's pet for a few days to
see exactly what is involved in caring for an animal on a daily
basis. Reading books from the local library and talking with
people who already own the type of pet you're considering are
other ways to become more informed. Just be careful to speak
with people who have nothing to gain from your decision. A
breeder might be very knowledgeable, but remember that he or
she is trying to make a living, too!
If you are still interested in adopting a pet, please consider
adopting a stray from the local animal shelter. You'll actually
be saving two lives: the life of the animal you adopt, as well
as making space for another animal that can be taken into the
shelter, where it can wait in safety for a home of its own.
Given the benefits of pet ownership, make that three lives!
References
Becker, M. and Morton, D. (2002). The Healing
Power of Pets. NY: Hyperion.
Schoen, A.M. (2001). Kindred Spirits. NY: Broadway Books.
Serpell, J.A., (1991). Beneficial Effects of Pet Ownership on Some Aspects
of Human Health. Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, 84, 717-720.
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