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Learning to Relax
Source: Needham, S. (n.d.). Learning to relax.
Retrieved May 18, 2005, from the Epotech database.
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We gauge how much stress we're under by the
amount of physical and emotional tension we feel. Too
much tension can be unhealthy as well as uncomfortable, which
is why relaxation is so important.
Relaxation provides a way for us to reduce some of the tensions
we develop from stress--which in turn
helps us to function more efficiently.
One of the ways our bodies cope with the effects of stress
is by "powering down" every night
when we sleep. During sleep, our bodies
become very relaxed and our heart rate, pulse, respiration,
blood
pressure and body temperature decrease. This gives our bodies
and
minds a chance to rejuvenate and allows us to face the next
day's stress
with a fresh supply of physical and mental vigor. And while
relaxation
isn't sleep, of course, it does produce many of the same benefits
of a
good night's sleep:
- Decreased muscle tension
- Lowered blood pressure
- Increased energy
- Improved immune-system functioning
- Reduced edginess or irritability
- Improved concentration
In effect, relaxation does the opposite
of what stress does, giving the body a break and helping
to
counteract many of the long- and short-term physical problems
that stress can produce. Relaxation can
also be a powerful tool in managing pain. It can help to
reduce the muscle tension that often accompanies
injury or illness, and can provide a distraction from pain
and worry. Finally, even a brief relaxation
exercise can provide a quick energy boost or give you a
time-out from concentrating on a difficult
problem or project. Often, when you return to a challenging
problem after a short relaxation break, you're
able to focus better and generate new solutions. |
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Key Relaxation Tips
Key Tip 1
Learning to relax can be difficult: It takes practice to relax,
especially if you're used to being under a great
deal of stress.
Key Tip 2
Relaxation may sound like another term for goofing off, but
it can be beneficial to your health. Research
shows relaxation training can help alleviate the symptoms associated
with many medical and
psychological disorders, including:
- High blood pressure
- Chronic and acute pain
- Nausea, vomiting
- Asthma and allergies
- Addiction
- Diabetes
- Insomnia
- Muscle spasms
- Headaches
- Anxiety and phobias
- Premenstrual syndrom (PMS)
- Irritable bowel syndrome
Key Tip 3
Once mastered, many of the benefits of relaxation can be enjoyed
with only 15 to 20 minutes of practice
per day. And if meditation is a part of your relaxation toolkit,
you may enjoy increased longevity and
quality of life, according to some studies.
Specifics
There are many effective ways to practice relaxation, so you
might want to try several to see what works
best for you. Among the more common methods of relaxation are:
- Deep breathing - One of the simplest relaxation
exercises, deep breathing can be used in almost any situation,
and no one will know but you. It involves taking slow, deep
breaths, breathing from the diaphragm, and exhaling slowly
to let the whole body relax a little more with each breath.
Most of the relaxation methods below include deep breathing.
- Progressive (deep) muscle relaxation - This
type of relaxation exercise involves alternately tensing, and
then releasing, groups of muscles throughout the body. It's
especially useful for those who say they feel tense everywhere,
or for those who have trouble telling the difference between
what's tense and what's relaxed.
- Passive muscle relaxation - This is like
progressive muscle relaxation, except that the muscles aren't
tensed first. You move through each part of your body in turn,
focusing on feelings of comfort and relaxation in all the muscles
of that area. As you move from your head to your toes (or vice
versa), you allow those feelings of relaxation to deepen and
spread.
- Meditation - This is a form of relaxation
that has been practiced in many cultures for centuries. It
involves resting in a comfortable position in a relatively
distraction-free environment and focusing your attention on
only one thing. This can be a mantra (a word or phrase that
you repeat to yourself), a sound (wind, running water), or
something visual (a candle flame, a spot on the wall, a pleasing
photograph). The goal is to learn to refocus your attention
each time you become distracted.
- Imagery or visualization - This involves
relaxing while using your imagination to create a visual image
of a relaxing, soothing or healing place or thing. Every element
in this image - sight, sound, taste, action and texture - is
imagined to make it as real as possible.
- Autogenics - This technique uses verbal
commands to lead your body to a more relaxed state. Repeated
words or phrases focus on the specific physical responses associated
with relaxation. Phrases may refer to feelings of heaviness,
warmth, regular heart rhythm or muscle relaxation. Likewise,
the phrases may focus on positive psychological concepts or
images.
- Self-hypnosis - Hypnosis is a deep state
of relaxation in which thoughts, suggestions and images can
be experienced as real. During self-hypnosis, the body is deeply
relaxed and the mind is narrowly focused. It's possible to
use hypnosis to alter physiological processes such as pain
perception, blood flow, brain wave activity and organ functioning,
as well as thoughts, emotions and behaviors.
- Biofeedback - This uses instruments to monitor
and give feedback on physiological responses during relaxation.
This is especially helpful in demonstrating the effects of
thoughts and actions on physical processes such as heart rate,
muscle tension, brain wave activity, blood pressure, respiration
or perspiration. Biofeedback does not make you relax - it simply
helps provide information about what your body is doing. With
this feedback, you can learn to modify your responses through
a variety of relaxation strategies.
FAQs
How can I tell which relaxation method is best for me?
The choice of which relaxation technique to use depends mostly
on your own personality and needs. Buy
a book or a tape, or take a class. Experiment with a few to see
which techniques work best for you.
When should I relax?
Any time you're thinking about relaxation, your body is probably sending you
a signal that stress is starting to take a toll. You may want to take a relaxation
break whenever you become aware of any of the following stress-related symptoms:
- Fatigue
- Decreased concentration
- Stiff or aching muscles
- Increased irritability or impatience
- Headache
- "Mental overload"
What do I do if my boss catches me doing a
relaxation exercise?
Most supervisors realize employees need occasional breaks, so
you can explain that you use yours to do
relaxation exercises rather than hang around the water cooler.
You also can mention that the exercises
improve your mental agility and attitude.
How can I relax when I have so much on my mind that it's hard
to concentrate?
It's natural at first to have difficulty refocusing your thoughts
toward relaxation - especially when you
have a lot on your mind. For most of us, relaxation is a skill
that takes some practice. When you're
learning, try practicing at a time when you're relatively calm
and free of major distractions. When
distractions do creep in, tell yourself to put them gently aside
until your relaxation time is over--you will
be better able to handle them afterwards.
I tried relaxation once or twice and it made me feel anxious. What's
up?
That can happen sometimes. Try using a very structured approach
like progressive muscle relaxation. If
it's still a problem, you may want to consult a relaxation therapist
for advice or training.
Resources
Books
Davis, Martha, Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman, and Matthew McKay.
(2000). The relaxation and stress reduction
workbook. New Harbinger.
Charlesworth, Edward A., and Ronald G. Nathan. (1991). Stress
management: A comprehensive guide to wellness.
Ballantine.
Benson, Herbert. (2000). The relaxation response. Wholecare.
Benson, Herbert. (1993). The wellness book: The comprehensive
guide to maintaining health and treating stressrelated illness.
Fireside.
Videos and Audiotapes
There are many relaxation training tapes available in both video
and audio formats. Check with your local library, book store
or video store.
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